Is it a rising orgasm or pee? (Wee. It was wee.)
Urinary tract infection and sex do not often go hand in hand... This Madmoizelle has had a wet experience of it!
September 24, 2019
I am 19 years old and I have been in a relationship for 2 years.
My boyfriend is my first sexual partner, and because of a huge block I have when the pleasure rises, I have never had an orgasm.
My block to orgasm
I haven't really identified my block, but I imagine that the fact that I'm at my parents' house doesn't help me let go.
But even the times when I benefited from better conditions, it didn't lead to anything and for good reason, I always end up preventing my boyfriend from continuing when the pleasure increases... For fear of the unknown perhaps ?
I never had an orgasm, why?For many women, the quest for orgasm is a real source of stress.
Laura Cherfi, a positive sex coach, explains that there can be many mental blocks that subsequently create a feeling of guilt:
For more information on orgasm, you can read the articles I have a sex life but no orgasm and How to cum during penetration?.
I rarely masturbate because I get little pleasure from it, especially when I use my fingers as a partner might. I like to lay on my stomach and press my entire crotch region with more or less intensity, without focusing on the clitoris, but I always end up getting tired. Also, I have trouble using my imagination , and visual stimuli don't help either. I like contact!
I don't get too stressed out about it anymore, but before I was really on edge when I felt like I wasted another opportunity. Tears were flowing and I was rushing to the realm of the internet to finally be told how to stop freaking out!
Making love with a urinary tract infection
If like me you search the web, you will find plenty of articles claiming that this orgasm stress is related to the fact that the rise of pleasure feels like a banal urge to pee (banal… on a throne , less on his partner).
I personally don't particularly have the urge to urinate during sex, and I don't find the rush of pleasure and the urge to urinate to be that similar. But that day, I suffered from a urinary tract infection. So the amounts of water coming in and out of my body were pretty huge, because I wanted to eliminate this invader.
My illness didn't stop my boyfriend and I from sharing a very pleasant naughty moment... And as my excitement mounted, my urge to pee followed. Surprised, I thought to myself:
Want to pee during sex?The urge to urinate during sex can have several causes.
If you yourself have to pee during sex, your bladder may just be full and a quick trip to the bathroom may relieve you.
If this passage on the bowl does not release you, it is possible that this pressing desire is the sign of an approaching orgasm. During pleasurable intercourse, excitement and pleasure cause the sexual tissues to swell.
The vagina can therefore press more insistently on the urethra, this super pipe that allows you to empty the bladder. A large swelling of the vagina can therefore cause a false urge to urinate, and can also precede an orgasm.
During vaginal penetration and in certain positions, the G-spot (located on the front part of the vagina) can be strongly stimulated. Because of its proximity to the bladder, its stimulation can give this false desire to urinate, which in fact announces a strong dose of pleasure in approach!
The day I peed on my boyfriend during sex
I wasn't stuck as usual, so I let it go, happy to finally know this famous sensation.
Except, as you might expect, I just… peed on my boyfriend.
This pee lasted at least 30 seconds because I had a lot of water in my bladder, and he was a little too surprised to pull out.
At the time, I felt panic and shame. At first my boyfriend didn't even understand what was going on, so he didn't have a reaction of disgust. But even after, he reassured me, telling me that I was sick and that it was not disgusting anyway!
Is it pee or female ejaculation?In cases of extreme orgasm during intercourse, it is possible that a liquid that may look like very diluted and odorless urine will be expelled.
This experience is not reserved for so-called “squirting” women; to learn more and make the difference, you can read Queen Camille's article All you need to know about the "squirting woman" effect!
No one was traumatized in the story, but now I'm sure the famous golden showers aren't my cup of tea!
To continue with the glamour, I couldn't get up in the middle of the night to wash the sheets in front of my parents' bedroom... So I covered the sheet with a thick blanket. Phew, it was soft and not at all wet!
Also read: Why ejaculating fast doesn't mean fucking badly
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